I have been wrestling with the best way to handle the mix of emotions I have coming up related to November’s election. I doubt that writing and sending a letter directly to you would have any impact. However, trying to have dialogue and debate with people supporting your ticket has not proven to be particularly productive either.
I am a believer in using dialogue to talk about difficult issues in order to avoid getting into right/wrong positions, working towards understanding people who live by different values than me. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes I come into a dialogue quite heated and very unhappy with what I think is another person’s ‘deplorable’ position.
However, I have found that when I listen and make space for someone’s opposing views, I learn something. Also, I don’t generally walk away thinking they are evil, narcissistic or a sociopath. I have more space, compassion and even if I still disagree have confidence we can live together with our differences.
The problem currently is that I am having a very hard time thinking of you as anything other than militantly ignorant (In case you are not familiar with that term, read Scott Peck’s, People of the Lie where he provides his definition of evil), narcissistic and more recently have wondered about the label sociopath.
I must be wrong.
I hope I’m wrong.
I must be missing something.
At parties and dinner conversations I have attempted to make a case for where you might be coming from. I admit most of my friends, family and colleagues, who are Democrats, Republicans or Canadian, are very put off by your bullying, ranting, raving style and your need to incite violence in a crowd of people who are already revved up. So the conversations have been one sided, and people have at times been upset with me for even attempting to understand your position.
I can’t say I blame them. The things you say you stand for make very little sense to me. Building a wall along the border of Mexico, getting rid of all Muslims are just two that seem frankly, crazy. If not crazy at least anti-social, mean and considering Mexico is a neighboring country and most Muslims are not terrorist, militantly ignorant on your part! Around other issues such as foreign policy, taxes, the economy, I hear you say, I quote, “I am very, very flexible on many issues.”
Really?! What does that even mean!
I don’t know your position or believe you have one. In other elections, I might disagree with a Republican point of view, but this time, I don’t know your position, other than to inflame. That really concerns me.
When I read the paper or watch the news, I am left thinking, you seem to like being overly aggressive, you cut people off when they are talking so you can make your own point, you yell and scream frequently, and you say mean things about almost every race, sex or opponent who has crossed your path.
So I am left thinking…maybe you are a sociopath.
Definition of a sociopath: someone who can be defined as a person with markers of Antisocial Personality Disorder, which is characterized by a disregard for the feelings of others, a lack of remorse or shame, manipulative behavior, unchecked egocentricity, and the ability to lie in order to achieve one’s goals.
I sort hate to agree with what I have heard others say about you, but it fits what I see, hear and read regarding your run for President.
So what gives? I think you must be a sociopath? Or tell me what you do stand for?
I don’t want a sociopath as a President. But the biggest problem is a sociopath makes for a very difficult opponent to beat. Because underneath, I don’t really think you care and you will lie and manipulate to achieve your goals.
What is worse is I believe you are very good at using the fear of people to get their vote. That is what bothers me the most, because I don’t really believe you are on their side. You just know that you can use their fears about the state of the world to get a vote and put yourself in office.
Maybe all politicians do this. I hope not.
I know this letter sounds mean, but I don’t know what else to do. I have not heard any information to refute this conclusion, and I’m looking for it. When I listen to your strong supporters they are either screaming or also saying something hateful about another group of people. That just doesn’t fit for me.
Okay you people out there who are voting for Donald, maybe you can help. But I will just say up front, screaming back at me won’t be very effective. I want to hear something genuine, real and heartfelt. Something other than a hateful reason for wanting to put this man in office.
I will listen to the debates, but unfortunately I doubt it will be any different than the ones I have already seen. I am actually concerned these will be worse.
I can only hope I am wrong or that others will decide having a sociopath for a President is not helpful.
Hate and anger will never make America strong and those are the most consistent messages I have heard from you, Donald.
America or Donald yourself, please stop this madness.
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