As a child this was simple nursery rhyme that was spoken, sung and incorporated into a variety of games.
I imagine I chuckled at the message back then.
Of course all the King’s men (and ladies) couldn’t put Humpty together again!
Why would Humpty Dumpty want to be put back together again?
We get so focused on Humpty being broken as the problem. I am beginning to believe that broken isn’t a problem at all. It’s an amazing opportunity for transformation and re-membering!
I believe we are having a Humpty Dumpty moment here in the States (and most of the planet) and of course all the King’s men are not going put us together again.
At least not in the way we think we should be!
So nursery rhymes are one thing and I know this is serious adult business.
So let’s apply a lesson from nature that speaks to the same message, only even more profoundly for me.
Yes, I am finding my joy working with horses. There are many, many reasons why this makes perfect sense. But there is one piece that I don’t hear talked about quite as much as all the science around mirror neurons and herd dynamics and such and that’s the story of how horses are the fastest species to go from domesticated (broken) back to feral (their true natural state of being in the wild).
You got to wonder – how is that possible?
We don’t, usually. But we can and there in lines the potential wonder of allowing oneself to be broken.
You got to wonder why horses ever engaged in their relationship with us. I know many will say they didn’t – we made them.
But let’s be clear – it was a relationship and like any relationship there were two parties playing their part.
Having now watched horse dynamics in many, many situations there is one thing that keeps shining through from the horse and that’s something about their ability to transform broken into re-membering, returning to their true nature!
That horse in the picture above is Osa, she was broken and she wasn’t very comfortable with people when she arrived at Stillwater Horse Whisper Ranch. Wouldn’t really now that now would you!!
Makes me think there’s more to the Humpty Dumpty story too. Because you know the truth is we started as an egg and frankly never would have gotten here with being broken.
Those Kings bring a mighty sword to the party and there’s all sorts of stories about why that is good, bad, painful, powerful etc, etc. – but again without that sword – that egg would have never been broken, you or me, would never have entered the picture. There’s something about that moment of conception that is worth considering.
I have been one to say at times, “you are not broken” – and I think I want to shift that. Yes, we are broken and that is a beautiful aspect of being human! It’s also a critical choice point. Will I surrender, will I fight, will I find a way home or make to my feral (natural) state!
I think we stay too focused on trying to stop people, the planet or simply the egg from being broken and that is not a problem to solve!
That is a very old story, that creates great suffering.
Just go watch a horse and discover another story-line that makes broken a beautiful opportunity for creating relationships.